GAINING CONTROL OF EVENTS
Different events in your
life have different degrees of control. The following is a list of different
events in you may experience in your life. Rank the degree of control
for each event, 1 standing for the least amount of control and 5, the
most amount of control.
Example: What time I go to
bed at night Degree of Control = 5
Although things may occur that delay the time I go to bed, like laundry
or homework, it is still my choice as to how early or how late I choose
to get to bed every night.
| Event
Degree of Control |
_____ |
| Time I get out of bed |
_____ |
| What I eat |
_____ |
| What I wear (to comply
with school dress code) |
_____ |
| Length of my commute
to work |
_____ |
| Meeting with my teacher/principal |
_____ |
| Lunch with a friend |
_____ |
| How I react to a peer
I don’t care for |
_____ |
| Traffic on my way home |
_____ |
| What I do this evening |
_____ |
| What I do tomorrow night |
_____ |
For each of the following
‘time robbers,’ mark whether it is ‘self-inflicted’
(SI) or ‘imposed on us’ (IU).
Example: Personal disorganization
SI, because that is under your contro
lPut a star (*) by the five
‘time robbers’ you believe are the most common.
| Time Robbers |
|
| Poor attitude |
_____ |
| Poor communication |
_____ |
| Equipment failure |
_____ |
| Disorganized boss |
_____ |
| Socializing |
_____ |
| Too much work |
_____ |
| Procrastination |
_____ |
| Poor planning |
_____ |
| Interruptions |
_____ |
| Waiting for answers |
_____ |
| Shifting priorities
|
_____ |
| Lack of self-discipline |
_____ |
| Failure to listen |
_____ |
| Unclear job definition
|
_____ |
| Cluttered workspace |
_____ |
| Low company morale |
_____ |
Kate Aprahamian/Dee Hamlet
Booket T. Washington
Norfolk VA